I learned from a girlfriend of mine that she came back from a team building day. One of her male colleagues surprised many people by acting as a car sales girl wearing bikini top.
The context is that her company is situated in a secondary city in China. She like many of her colleagues think this male fellow is a quiet, shy, introverted person.
There are other occasions that are beyond our expectation, especially about other people’s dos and don’ts.
What are the possible reasons for these?
We are biased? People are capable more than we expected? We have mentally set up boarders, limitations for others?
These are all possible.
We do not know our limitations, edges till we face challenges.
One’s edge can be extended facing difficulties, challenges.
Every challenge we conquered expand our comfortable zone. Therefore, we create new edge.
Until next circle of challenge we may live in our comfortable zone.
If you break your edge constantly, grow your space, you will have more break free area.
Live on edge.