We are in a company, in a social community. Our relationship with our colleagues is important for our success, happiness and productivity at work.
There are three things you can do to improve your relationship with your colleagues.
1. Be mindful with your words. Many of us are not aware that some words we say are rude or are perceived as rude by others. This means that we have blind spot in our self-insights. We need learn to listen to ourself – what does it sound like when we replay back to ourself. We need be empathetic to others and think in other’s shoes to increase our mindfulness and improve our communication.
2. Be careful on commenting on other’s appearance. At work, it can be awkward toco me t on other’s appearance, especially when someone is sensitive to their appearance. If you want to have a small talk to warm up with others, pick up something neutral.
3. Give positive comments generously. We tend to save our positive comments and think they know your intention. We need to let others know they do a good job. Positive enforcement is an effective way to boost your relationship with them and also their continuing positive behavior. Give positive comments generously also reduce stress for the working environment. As a leader, the positive comments you give also increase the engagement.
Use the three tips for better communication, therefore you will have a better team and a better environment.
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