I was educated to serve others first from very young by the environment I grew up. If I served myself first, I was criticized as selfish. Therefore, I had been tried hard to think for others, serve others first.
Until…I began my second job, I realized that I was not happy always put others first. When I was not myself, I could not treat others fairly, I could not make others happy even though I tried really hard.
I learned then that only when I am myself, I can treat others better. When I feel happy, I am happily doing my work, talking to others and living happily.
Me comes first is not a selfish act. It is actually a responsible act. It is first and foremost important rule in life.
Michelle Obama said the lesson she learned first year at White House is to love herself first. Only then she can love the President Obama, her daughters, her job and what she does…
Oprah said the similar thing, love yourself first before you could love anyone else truly.
Love yourself first and foremost, then you can love the world more, give more, and create more.
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